Good from far

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We are good friends now and I really enjoy your company. I mean that and not in an all-words-fake-warmth way that is natural to that line. But just for a moment, can you imagine....how it would been if things had gotten serious between us back then.

We had many things that clicked and truth be said, the freedom and flexibility I had with you, did in many ways make me whatever little I am. But I was always conscious of our dissance. For a while I thought I could like you in my own way but after a point I could not deny certain things. Like how you were always too quick and dare I say, of a rather unmanageable size for me. And I too meek and nondescript to match with you.

We ended it right and now I am only even more sure of that. Aspects of you I knew and enjoyed have changed substantially but in some inexplicable way you are the same. I wish I could say the same about myself.

Happy Valentine's Day Mumbai !

Comments

  1. AnonymousFebruary 15, 2009 at 9:02 PM

    awesome.. this is a love affair that's gonna last a lifetime.. :-)

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  2. AnonymousFebruary 15, 2009 at 9:12 PM

    not "love" affair.. as u'r good friends now...but yup.. the connection's gonna last..a lifetime..

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  3. Bala (Karthik)February 16, 2009 at 12:24 PM

    So 'dissance' is official now. yay!

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  4. dagaltiFebruary 16, 2009 at 12:43 PM

    Divya,

    Lifetime is a big word. 'Weekend' is more like it.

    Welcome Bala.

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