What a Man Wants -3
The second time they meet, Clara says she was thinking about how to react if Jayachandran brings up the question of marriage. She says that in 'passive voice'. i.e. 'had the question been raised' (not: had Jayachandran raised the qn). He counters it with: what if the question had been raised (i.e. what would have been your speculation). And her response is : the question has not been raised. Has it? I found that fantastic. There is just no simulating life. No predicting, expecting how people would react, deciding accordingly. Things just happen like rain and you have to bloody go with it. It's not like you have a choice. You can think as much as you like about how you would react to situations when they crop up. But will you indeed react that way? Can you be sure about that? If values, beliefs are all supposed to be based on 'how one reacts to situations', then how can one think 'I am like this only' in such a fundamentally uncertain world....